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EmpowerHER


Jun 22, 2020

In this episode:

  • Labeling your fear as excitement
  • Failure & stumbling are not the opposite of success
  • Taking the responsibility of figuring it out
  • Picking your first step to get the ball rolling

Hey girl, I am so excited you are here!

Today’s episode comes directly from a message I got from a woman on Instagram who said, “Kac, I really wanna do this thing, but I don’t know how.”

I LOVE this topic because ‘how’ holds us back from doing so many things that we want to do in our life.

So here’s my take on it: you can tell me HOW to ride a unicycle & I can understand fundamentally what I need to do.

But until I actually grab that unicycle, sit on it & start pedaling - understanding that there’s a very good chance I’m going to fall on my face - I’m never going to know how to do it.

Because even if the best unicycler in the world teaches me how, they’ve put their reps in to get that good & I haven’t done it yet. So how in the world could I know how until I actually start & get that clarity and belief in myself that comes from action.

That’s what we are talking about today & I think you’re really going to vibe with it!      

 

Quotes:

“If we get too caught up in the ‘how’ just visualizing the actual action, & we choose to stay stuck, we’re never going to get there.”

“Failure and stumbling and the doubts that come in, are not actually the opposite of success, they’re actually a necessary stepping stone to get you where you want to go.”

“We don’t need a permission slip from anybody. And we don’t need a manual with step-by-step instructions of how to do the thing that’s on our heart. We just need the first step.”

“Don’t rob yourself of the opportunity to see success & fulfillment in your life simply because you refuse to take responsibility that even with the best damn map on the planet… the how comes from action.”

 

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